Forward
Introduction Allowing change & growth The Savior Expectations & conditions Insecurity & low self-esteem Not being realistic Ignoring the problems Sexual intimacy Losing the intimacy Power struggles Over-nurturing Affairs Not your authentic self Freedom of self-expression Fear of loneliness Ownership, property or object… Addiction to a lover Lessons Should you break up? Ending a relationship Spiritual evolving relationships Greater evolved relationships Relationships & Subtle Bodies Conclusion |
Within each of us, there exists an idea of the more highly evolved existence, shaped by our expanding consciousness. As we grow and change, our goals evolve with us, adjusting to who we become with each step forward. Our unique personalities and paths are interconnected, influencing both the mundane and the grand aspects of our lives.
As long as you live, your personality and worldview will reflect your path and goals. Right now, you are subconsciously aware of what you will become in the future because your present and future selves are linked. For some, the past, present, and future blend together, creating a sense of coexistence. However, most people experience a strong sense of linear time, focused primarily on the present. Lessons learned along the way shape the journey between our past, present, and future selves. These lessons are part of who we are, intricately woven into our experiences. The time it takes to learn these lessons is flexible, depending on our perception. Our consciousness determines how fast or slow time feels and whether it flows linearly. Your path isn’t set in stone; it evolves with you. In linear time, you build your future moment by moment. The futures you glimpse in dreams, meditations, or intuitions are probable futures. The future is elastic and already unfolding from a non-linear perspective, but we experience it step by step. Occasionally, we may sense the non-linear flow, as different experiential worlds blended like the colors of a rainbow. Despite probable futures, we create, experience, and learn freely, not bound by a predetermined outcome. Relationships, in particular, allow us to explore aspects of ourselves we can’t experience alone. We see ourselves through others’ eyes, expanding our perspective. Each relationship offers a unique manifestation of our personality, and in strong relationships, we share in our partner’s lessons. Lessons are never missed due to bad timing; they are intrinsic to our being and can only be put on hold, reemerging in different forms and circumstances. When we learn at our own pace, everything falls into place. Problems indicate lessons we need to address. Solving these problems requires understanding their root causes to prevent recurrence. Focusing only on symptoms leads to repeated issues until the underlying lesson is learned. Some people grow quickly by consciously or unconsciously inviting problems, using them as catalysts for growth. They thrive in situations that need fixing, accelerating their own evolution and helping those around them by sharing the burden. However, this can lead to a life where problems seem as inherent as happiness. Expecting problems can create new ones unnecessarily. No one is meant to live in constant hardship. If you find yourself in such a situation, understand that problems arise from imbalances and are not an inseparable part of life. They stem from experiences and are not woven into the fabric of your being. By addressing the root causes and learning the lessons they present, you can restore balance and move towards a more harmonious existence. |