Forward
Introduction Allowing change & growth The Savior Expectations & conditions Insecurity & low self-esteem Not being realistic Ignoring the problems Sexual intimacy Losing the intimacy Power struggles Over-nurturing Affairs Not your authentic self Freedom of self-expression Fear of loneliness Ownership, property or object… Addiction to a lover Lessons Should you break up? Ending a relationship Spiritual evolving relationships Greater evolved relationships Relationships & Subtle Bodies Conclusion |
Ignoring problems in a relationship can lead to explosive consequences, transforming you into someone you never intended to be. Constant battles can take a toll on both your physical and mental health, leaving you feeling desperate and lonely within the relationship.
We often justify our actions and blame our partner when things go wrong, believing we are in the right. However, constant complaining only masks the real issue, which is the discomfort both partners feel. Instead of focusing on the symptoms like cheating, abuse, detachment, and distrust, it’s crucial to address the root cause of these problems. Taking a break from each other can create space for healing and reflection, potentially allowing you to come back stronger as a couple. Sometimes, we become so consumed with our own desires that we lose sight of our partner’s needs. We might even convince ourselves that our relationship is wonderful to hide the truth from ourselves. If your partner voices concerns about the relationship or expresses unwillingness to commit, take it seriously. Loving them more won’t change their fundamental feelings. Differences don’t always mean separation, but they might indicate that you need something different for yourself. Self-deception often keeps us in unhealthy relationships, even when we know deep down that we should leave. Weigh the damage of staying in a joyless relationship against the challenge of moving on. While you might fear the darkness and loneliness after leaving, facing this transition is essential for finding new life and happiness. It’s a time of confusion and growth, but remaining open and honest about your feelings will aid your healing process. You might be afraid to leave, and the initial withdrawal can be painful. However, a temporary separation can help you assess your feelings and the potential for improvement in your relationship. With the support of friends and family, you’ll navigate this period. Remember, mature and “higher” relationships do not hinder personal growth. Genuine love means wanting happiness for each other, even if it means letting go. By confronting issues head-on, taking necessary breaks, and being honest with yourself and your partner, you can either strengthen your relationship or find the courage to move on to a healthier, more fulfilling life. |